A recurring theme in some of my erotic writing is pegging. The practice of a woman using a strap-on dildo on a man.
I was trying to remember where I first saw this. My earliest memory of it is probably from junior high or high school and reading a review of an adult movie in a magazine. The accompanying picture was of a woman crouched behind a man on his knees. She was wearing a harness and it was obvious that she was penetrating him, even though the photo didn't show everything.
There was something intriguing about that image though I didn't explore the idea of it again until years later.
Today, I'm turned on by the idea of role reversal in the pegging dynamic. I'm attracted to strong, confident women and while I'm not sure if I would enjoy the physical sensation of being penetrated anally by a dildo, I can honestly say that I'd be willing to try it for the right woman. Especially if the idea of it turns her on as much or more than it does me.
I've read, and written, about how wearing a strap-on dildo and penetrating a guy can feel empowering for a woman. I'm actually more turned on by the idea of getting on my knees in front of a woman wearing a strap-on and going down on her fake cock. Licking and sucking on the dildo as I look up past her bare breasts and into her eyes. I imagine her jaw dropping in fascination as she watches me bob my head back and forth on her silicone member.
The closest I've come to this experience was a time or two when I was making out with a lady friend and I started to suck on her fingers. I loved the look on her face. She was fascinated by the site of me taking them into my mouth. We had talked about pegging and MMF fantasies before and I knew she was imagining me sucking on a cock as she felt my wet, warm mouth and tongue on her fingers.
I also had a conversation with another friend about pegging, in which we both confessed having fantasized about trying it. I told her that I would let her do it to me but we never tried it.
Someday though, I certainly hope to.
Steven,
ReplyDeleteYou don't say whether you've incorporated pegging into your writing. Judging by your erotic response right here in your article, it would make a good scene or two in one of your stories, no? Perhaps even the central image of a story. Let me know.
One of my favorite stories involving pegging is "Steven and Emma"
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Your candor and lyrical writing style even when discussing something on a blog (as opposed to setting a scene in a story) is very entertaining. Thank you for putting this out there, Steven! It's interesting to know what goes on in a man's psyche WITHOUT the posturing - or, at least, I think so. :) Looking forward ro reading some of your stuff soon.
ReplyDeleteI'd never heard of it called pegging, but very interesting. I used it in my scenes right from the get-go. I'm new to novel-writing, and erotica is my first stop. So your article was interesting and entertaining to boot, and reading your experiences and perspective give me some ideas to toss about in some of my future scenes.
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